nghttpx: Fix location rewrite is failed because request headers are empty

Previously we empties request headers after they are sent to
downstream in order to free memory.  But it turns out that we use
request headers when rewriting location header response field.  Also
user reported that request headers are useful to add new features.
This commits defers the deletion of request headers to the point when
response headers are deleted (which is after response headers are sent
to upstream client).
nghttpx: Add --listener-disable-timeout option
nghttpx: Strict integer config validation
tests: Include config.h
nghttpx: Move --backend-http-proxy-uri to Connections section
Add Makefile for MSVC

Contributed by G. Vanem