Etcd watching refactor and synchronous main loop

First few files are minor test improvements and a completely useless embedded coordinator bug fix.

Then comes the 2 significant changes:

1. etcd watching refactor
  * :white_check_mark: slightly less code
  * :white_check_mark: fewer goroutines
  * :white_check_mark: no more watcher state
  * :white_check_mark: no more watcher locks
  * :x: not as DRY (could probably be tweaked a bit to regain DRYness)
2. main loop "ticks" to make it synchronous. Fixes a problem where coordinator.Watch() would return the same task twice before Claim() would be called. No a huge problem but it caused extra etcd requests and confusing log lines. Has added benefits like not restarting the balancer timer until the previous Balance() call has actually completed.
3. ~~Use wait group for consumer's command, task, and balancer goroutines so Run() and Shutdown() block until all parts of the consumer have exited cleanly.~~ This was a terrible idea. See afd99de if you're curious.
Are you still dealing with the unexpected index error?  Or is that was the restartWatchError is for?