Add disable options for optional plugins
Fix fontconfig cmake module
Fix Freetype cmake module
Fix AppKit find module
Fix major misunderstanding of cached variables in all find modules
Add cmake option to disable user interface

Adds:
ENABLE_UI (on by default) which makes it so that the UI is required, and
will fail if a dependency is not found.  This is on by default because
most people are building it with the user interface, and we'll probably
get a lot of issue reports stating "why is there no executable?" if we
don't have this on by default.

DISABLE_UI which forces the UI off.

If neither are set, then the UI will only be built if the dependencies
for it are found, otherwise the UI will be be ignored.
Merge pull request #264 from BtbN/disable_stuff

Add disable options for optional plugins, various cmake fixes
Add interaction support to libobs
Add helper function to get specific scene item
Add interaction gui
Merge pull request #265 from kc5nra/interaction

Add interaction support to libobs and support for pumping the events/interaction in gui
Disable safeseh on 32bit builds
Merge pull request #267 from BtbN/seh

Disable safeseh on 32bit builds