Findopm-parser.cmake: make sure that the ERT libraries are available

and some other minor cleanups to the module. For me it still works,
but this being the build system, I can't guarantee more...
Findopm-parser.cmake: invoke FindBoost unconditionally

even if boost was found previously, it might still miss a few
libraries. thanks to @akva2 for catching this.
Disable search for Boost in parser detection

This changeset disables the effect of commit 1be7a85.  There appears
to be an unforeseen interaction between the calls to

    Find_Package (Boost)

that are implied by module 'opm-parser-prereqs.cmake' and the one
that's directly invoked in 'Findopm-parser.cmake'.  Until the
situation can be fully analysed and a complete solution implemented,
this is a temporary measure to restore the build of opm-core and
downstream OPM modules.
added: hook for conditionally compiled files

backport from opm-upscaling PR#100
Merge pull request #67 from bska/067_cmake

Synchronise build system with OPM-Core