Use NMTVDISPINFO instead of TV_DISPINFO in wxMSW code.

The latest w32api 4.0.3, used by MinGW project, still didn't manage to apply a
one line fix to define TV_DISPINFO correctly, so tweak our sources to avoid
using it.

See #15537.

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Correct instructions for building wx applications with MSVC.

Use the correct $WXWIN/include/msvc path instead of the non-existing
$WXWIN/msvc.

Also mention that $WXWIN should actually be $(WXWIN) for MSVC.

Closes #16410.

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