erp5 stack: Use slapos recipe build 0.13
erp5 stack: add check-tcp-listening

Unlike the check_port_listening recipe, it does not open any socket.
It checks just by reading these files /proc/net/tcp{,6}.
erp5 stack: use template-check-tcp-listening-promise on mariadb
Use newer slapos.recipe.build (0.13) for gitclone.