Convert SetSubtensor to IncSubtensor when possible

This came up in a user case where decoupling led to code doing essentially this:

```
v = <some value>
s = v[[2, 1]]
g = s + 1
r = set_subtensor(s, g)
```

In this case the set_subtensor is actually an inc_subtensor in disguise.

I only cover the AdvancedSubtensor1 case in this PR as that was the problem, but this could be extended to the other kind of indexing.
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AdvancedIncSubtensor1(x, x[ilist]+other, ilist, set_instead_of_inc=True) -> AdvancedIncSubtensor1(x, other, ilist, set_instead_of_inc=False)