wxmac: --without-mediactrl on 64-bit machines.

Users of tools that fail when trying to link non-existent frameworks
run into problems on 64-bit macs, because the old 32-bit QuickTime
framework does not and never will exist as a 64 bit library.

This has been submitted upstream and accepted into wxmac HEAD, however
a released version is not yet available and won't be for quite some
time.

This patch lets us actually get code to compile without waiting 8
months for a release.

Closes #34543.
Closes #33366.

Signed-off-by: Mike McQuaid <mike@mikemcquaid.com>
wxmac: update 3.0.2 bottle.