[1.7.x] Fixed #23259 -- Corrected insertion order of extra() select_params

A regression caused queries to produce incorrect results for cases where
extra(select) is excluded by values() but included by extra(order_by)

The regression was caused by 2f35c6f10fcbae541691207fb0c0560a13b754fc.

Backport of f0b358880a from master