memory: MemoryRegion: rename parent to container

Avoid confusion with the QOM parent.

Reviewed-by: Peter Crosthwaite <peter.crosthwaite@xilinx.com>
Signed-off-by: Paolo Bonzini <pbonzini@redhat.com>
memory: Don't call memory_region_update_coalesced_range if nothing changed

With huge number of PCI devices in the system (for example, 200
virtio-blk-pci), this unconditional call can slow down emulation of
irrelevant PCI operations drastically, such as a BAR update on a device
that has no coalescing region. So avoid it.

Signed-off-by: Fam Zheng <famz@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Paolo Bonzini <pbonzini@redhat.com>