wxmac: disable monolithic build

More software requires non-monolithic builds than the
other way around

Closes #26624.
erlang: build with wx support by default

Closes #26427.
Closes #18291.
pdns: add --HEAD

Closes #27114.

Signed-off-by: Adam Vandenberg <flangy@gmail.com>
ifuse 1.1.3
pdns: add 3.3.1 bottle.
ifuse: add 1.1.3 bottle.