ISPN-4938 Infinispan Commons Util package is not in generated Javadoc

* Also fixed import in interface
ISPN-4886 SingleNodeJdbcStoreIT.testForcedShutdown and
testNormalShutdown random failures

* Made sure we put the same byte as the test consistently
JavaDoc: multiline code examples are mangled
Replace sfl4j-jdk14 dependency with sfl4j-log4j12 so that jboss logging
writes to log4j in the cdi module (and dependents).

Add more debugging around cache listeners. It seems Class.getMethods()
sometimes returns synthetic methods created by overriding a generic method.