2014.07.13 MSS Code Factory CFLib 1.11.12254 Add action hooks and icons to CFJReference

The CFJReference should now set the icons for it's buttons by
modifying the actions that are passed in to it.  You should not
try to override the default icons by specifying them in your actions,
though of course I can't *stop* you from abusing things that way if
you so choose.  Don't specify any action attributes, just the
event callback to be used for processing.

Now I need to go through all the CFCrm code and wire up the action
callbacks for the references to the view/edit windows and to the
pickers.