Undirty freed spill blocks.

If a spill block's dbuf hasn't yet been written when a spill block is
freed, the unwritten version will still be written.  This patch handles
the case in which a spill block's dbuf is freed and undirties it to
prevent it from being written.

The most common case in which this could happen is when xattr=sa is being
used and a long xattr is immediately replaced by a short xattr as in:

	setfattr -n user.test -v very_very_very..._long_value  <file>
	setfattr -n user.test -v short_value  <file>

The first value must be sufficiently long that a spill block is generated
and the second value must be short enough to not require a spill block.
In practice, this would typically happen due to internal xattr operations
as a result of setting acltype=posixacl.