made adaptions on column options

- [x] finish the code
- [x] gather feedback for my changes
- [x] submit changes to the documentation


| Q             | A
| ------------- | ---
| Bug fix?      | yes
| New feature?  | yes
| Tests pass?   | none
| Fixed tickets | none
| Doc           | https://github.com/sulu-cmf/docs/blob/master/developer-documentation/100-basic/admin-components.md