update couchdb puppet module
proper json for tapicero config
fix couch tests to use admin credentials
adopt webapp test to new hiera couch clients format
haproxy default to couch_write, couch_read on GET

METH_POST probably does not catch PUT, DESTROY etc. So instead we
now use the master as the default and only use the replications
for GET and HEAD requests.
haproxy connects to a local couch if available

When running a service that requires couch (webapp or mx) on a node that also had couch running the haproxy was confused because it did not have an stunnel port for the local couch.

Emit a more useful error and fixed this for webapp and mx