+per #13815 akka-persistence-tck based on @krasserm's work

Original here: https://github.com/krasserm/akka-persistence-testkit

New features:
* merged martin's tests
* usable from java (junit 4)
* simple bench test, which helps checking if ordering is perserved under
  bigger workloads and simple perf checking
* does NOT include tests for already deprecated features (deleteMessages)
* docs

Resolves #13815
Merge pull request #15514 from ktoso/wip-13815-persistence-TCK-ktoso

+per #13815 akka-persistence-tck based on @krasserm's work