etcdserver: record removed member to check incoming message

I put removed member in a new directory other than members because 1. removed members has no need to record raftAttributes and attributes anymore 2. removed members have different use case from active members, and they don't need to be fetched at the same time
Sorry for not being clear previously. here is what i want:
```go
if err := h.server.validate(m); err != nil {
    ...
}
// stats logic
// process logic
```