don't export draft children of orphaned drafted (TNL-923)

@dmitchell 
@zubair-arbi 

Fixes an issue where the draft children of orphaned drafts were being exported

related bugs:
https://openedx.atlassian.net/browse/TNL-923
https://openedx.atlassian.net/browse/TNL-872
@dmitchell , tl;dr: so that we make sure to skip exporting any tree whose root is an orphan.