added constructors to HAPolicy for Wildfly
HORNETQ-1379 & https://bugzilla.redhat.com/show_bug.cgi?id=1125042 - forcing clients out when the server is stuck on delivery over OIO
new configuration prototype
updated new startup config to use jms server and add a stop command
BZ#1010242 Add meta data to inbound XA resources

Adds a new wrapper around existing XAResource that implements
org.jboss.tm.XAResourceWrapper.  This interface allows the transaction
manager to get hold of extra meta data about the resource allowing it to
associate XIDs with XAResource under certain failure scenarios.