Removed unnecessary sizers from forms (homeworld)

 - Homeworld apparently removed a number of unnecessary sizers from the
   basic UI window form to reduce wx resize computations.
Handle source adding/removal better

 - Made it so that when a source is added or removed from a scene it
   will add a reference to sourceSceneRefs (std::unordered_map).  Each
   source adds a reference to that every time they are added to a scene,
   and releases a reference from it when they are removed from a scene.

   When the value reaches 0, the source is no longer in any scenes, and
   is then marked for removal and destroyed.

   Before, I was using the source internal reference counter, which is a
   really bad thing to do because I don't know what might actually be
   referencing it.  So using a separate discrete reference counter for
   the number of scenes it's in is better in this case.