ISPN-4291 Poor REPL state transfer performance with cache stores

https://issues.jboss.org/browse/ISPN-4400

* Skip the cache store iteration if the local node didn't lose any segments
* Move the invalidation after receiving the transaction data, so that write
  commands can be performed in parallel.
We can't have a key in `keysToRemove` that's not also in `dataContainer`. Unless there's passivation going on, but that's for another day and another PR...