MB-12075: refresh vbucket_map_mirror cache on ssl port updates

Stale cache was causing node .218 to send node .225 node info without
couchApiBaseHTTPS field. Which caused continous crashes on other
cluster.

It looks like cache was stale because we did not refresh it on ssl
capi port updates.

Change-Id: I56c9e7bdcfc9b82cab832ecec7b9312fc776875d
Reviewed-on: http://review.couchbase.org/40949
Tested-by: Aliaksey Kandratsenka <alkondratenko@gmail.com>
Reviewed-by: Artem Stemkovski <artem@couchbase.com>