Mark connections in pool as closed to prevent reuse

Needs further discussion

Example Script 

```python
from sqlalchemy import *
engine = create_engine("exa+pyodbc://", pool_size=1)
con = engine.connect()
print con.execute("select 1").fetchall()
con.close()
# in exaplusgui
# select * from exa_all_sessions;
# kill session XXXX;
raw_input("Kill session in exaplus and Press button to continue")
con = engine.connect()
try:
    print con.execute("select 1").fetchall()
except Exception as e:
    #[40004] [EXASOL][EXASolution driver]Connection lost.
    print e
finally:
    con.close()
con = engine.connect()
print con.execute("select 1").fetchall()
#[HY000] [EXASOL][EXASolution driver]Socket closed by peer
````
Thanks Jan,

another question is if we should add a super call to the pyodbc is_disconnect function

https://github.com/zzzeek/sqlalchemy/blob/master/lib/sqlalchemy/connectors/pyodbc.py#L101