ISPN-4490 Members can miss the rebalance cancellation on coordinator change

Simulate the rebalance cancellation in StateTransferManagerImpl.
ISPN-4496 EncryptProtocolIT shouldn't check passwords via JMX
Replace ignore tests with empty test to avoid false alarms
ISPN-3645 StateTransferLargeObjectTest hangs randomly

Add a more focused and reliable test: RemoteGetStressTest.