fscache: load directories only once

If multiple threads access a directory that is not yet in the cache, the
directory will be loaded by each thread. Only one of the results is added
to the cache, all others are leaked. This wastes performance and memory.

On cache miss, add a future object to the cache to indicate that the
directory is currently being loaded. Subsequent threads register themselves
with the future object and wait. When the first thread has loaded the
directory, it replaces the future object with the result and notifies
waiting threads.

Signed-off-by: Karsten Blees <blees@dcon.de>
The actual loading is done outside the critical section (see lines 290/325 below). We don't want to block concurrent readers while doing expensive IO.