Fixes sibling explosion bug caused by forwarding coordination

requests during handoff

Forward port of this issue from 1.4 to 2.0:
basho/riak_kv#1046

Original fix is:
https://github.com/basho/riak_kv/commit/d3c8c4b634446abf346e76f0b97c3cb784be35d1

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