attempt to expand huge allocations in-place

This adds support for expanding huge allocations in-place by requesting
memory at a specific address from the chunk allocator.

It's currently only implemented for the chunk recycling path, although
in theory it could also be done by optimistically allocating new chunks.
For example, on Linux it could attempt an in-place mremap. However, it
is not going to work in practice since the heap is grown downwards and
memory is not unmapped (in a normal build, at least).

Repeated vector reallocation micro-benchmark:

    #include <string.h>
    #include <stdlib.h>

    int main(void) {
        for (size_t i = 0; i < 100; i++) {
            void *ptr = NULL;
            size_t old_size = 0;
            for (size_t size = 4; size < (1 << 30); size *= 2) {
                ptr = realloc(ptr, size);
                if (!ptr) return 1;
                memset(ptr + old_size, 0xff, size - old_size);
                old_size = size;
            }
            free(ptr);
        }
    }

The glibc allocator fails to do any in-place reallocations on this
benchmark once it passes the M_MMAP_THRESHOLD (default 128k) but it
elides the cost of copies via mremap, which is currently not something
that jemalloc can use.

With this improvement, jemalloc still fails to do any in-place huge
reallocations for the first outer loop, but then succeeds 100% of the
time for the remaining 99 iterations. The time spent doing allocations
and copies drops down to under 5%, with nearly all of it spent doing
purging + faulting (when huge pages are disabled) and the array memset.

An improved mremap API (MREMAP_RETAIN - #138) would be far more general
and avoids the purging overhead (MADV_FREE would probably do it too) but
this is more portable and would still be useful on Linux for xallocx.

Numbers with transparent huge pages enabled:

glibc (copies elided via MREMAP_MAYMOVE): 8.471s

jemalloc: 17.816s
jemalloc + no-op madvise: 13.236s

jemalloc + this commit: 6.787s
jemalloc + this commit + no-op madvise: 6.144s

Numbers with transparent huge pages disabled:

glibc (copies elided via MREMAP_MAYMOVE): 15.403s

jemalloc: 39.456s
jemalloc + no-op madvise: 12.768s

jemalloc + this commit: 15.534s
jemalloc + this commit + no-op madvise: 6.354s

Closes #137