make deploys output a little nicer

saves the sqlplus output to a file and greps for errors
making pushtoike grab the logs after its done
Clean up DB connect calls
Skeleton of MealGroceryList
fixing Recipe_Consumes_GroceryItem

needs to have a quanity attribute according to our diagram
first cut of logic for MealGroceryList
working MealGroceryList

needs a lot of clean up from all the debugging i did