Label behaviour + 'refresh' improvement + minor fixes

Hi! I was having some problems when using labels in the form of Dropkick, so I adjusted it and decided to adjust some other things.

As I'm not sure which tool you use to minify the code, suggest you to minify again.

Here are the adjustments:

• 'refresh' method now updates only '.dk_options_inner', instead of destroy and rebuild the whole dropkick instance
• Clicking a label now focus the respective select dropkick
• Abillity to set a placeholder that is hidden from the options by setting 'disabled selected' to the first select option
• Corrects border-radius when the dropkick opens on top by adding '.dk_open_top' class to container
• This version of DropKick was tested and confirmed that works with jQuery 1.7+

Gracefully,