HPCC-12010 Fix deadlock in onActivity cache building

If building, whilst a queue request is processing, e.g.
onSetJobPriority, the two threads involved can deadlock each
other.
Regression introduced by HPCC-11637

Signed-off-by: Jake Smith <jake.smith@lexisnexis.com>
Better if this didn't have the same name as the item in the inner loop