prevent LWRPs starting newly-created resources by default

Pacemaker defaults the `target-role` `meta` parameter to `Started`, but when resources are handled programmatically via the Chef LWRPs, it makes more sense for them to default to `Stopped` so that the `:create` action only creates, and then `:start` starts.  This will allow us to create a resource without starting it, and then start it via a clone, or a group, or a clone of a group etc. etc.

This requires using the `--force` parameter to `crm`, which in turn requires a `crm` which has been patched to address [bnc#868697](https://bugzilla.novell.com/show_bug.cgi?id=868697).