connect and disconnect sliders, knobs, value-fields on demand

having many widgets connected to OSC or MIDI and receiving lots of data
may increase CPU-demands beyond capacity. This commit implements a
mechanism to disconnect CPU-hungry sliders, knobs, value-fields on the
fly (they can be reconnected at any time).

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preparing a better mechanism for connecting sliders, textfields

in progress...

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Merge branch 'CVCenter_wrap_bugfix' of github.com:nuss/CVCenter into CVCenter_wrap_bugfix

Conflicts:
	CVCenter/CVCenter.sc

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