nghttpx: Limit # of downstream connections per host when h2 proxy is used

This commit limits the number of concurrent HTTP/1 downstream
connections to same host.  By defualt, it is limited to 8 connections.
--backend-connections-per-frontend option was replaced with
--backend-http1-connections-per-host, which changes the maximum number
of connections per host.  This limitation only kicks in when h2 proxy
is used (-s option).