Draggable: Only blur the focused element if the event occurs on a handle

I manually verified this works and doesn't regress #4261 in IE 8, 9, 10, 11, and Chrome. I'm having a hell of a time writing a test for this though. The existing test for #4261 passes in all the IEs.

cc @mikesherov
combine this conditional with the one below it to reduce nesting level.