res_phoneprov: Cleanup module load error handling

Tested module load/reload interaction between res_phoneprov and
res_pjsip_phoneprov_provider in cases where res_phoneprov didn't
load correctly (usually misconfiguration or missing phoneprov.conf)

Tested-by: George Joseph

Review: https://reviewboard.asterisk.org/r/4069/
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Merged revisions 425264 from http://svn.asterisk.org/svn/asterisk/branches/12
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Merged revisions 425265 from http://svn.asterisk.org/svn/asterisk/branches/13


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