Consistent use of ClassUtils.forName instead of class.getClassLoader().loadClass

Issue: SPR-11780
ResultSetWrappingSqlRowSet preserves first matching column per name (as defined in ResultSet's javadoc)

Issue: SPR-11786
Polishing
Avoid JMSException in listener execution

This commit avoids throwing JMSException from the listener execution
as this is not allowed per spec. Our SessionAwareMessageListener
gives a callback that can throw JMSException and we have "abused" it
so far.

Typical message processing goes in those 3 steps:
* Unmarshall the javax.jms.Message to the requested type
* Invoke the actual user method (including processing of method
  arguments)
* Send a reply message, if any

Those three steps have been harmonized so that they don't throw a
JMSException anymore. For the later case, introduced
ReplyFailureException as a general exception indicating the
reply message could not have been sent.

Issue: SPR-11778
Polishing
Latest possible dependency updates for spring-orm
Add error code for SAP Hana

This commit adds a SQLErrorCodes instance for SAP DB, based on a
contribution from Andrew Clemons

Mostly based on SAP Hana SPS 07 with a few additional codes that are
only present is previous versions:

* -813 - Cannot connect to host somehost:30115 [Connection refused]
* -709 - Unknown host somehost:30115 [somehost], -709.]
* -708 - Cannot connect to jdbc:sap://somehost:30115 [Receive of connect failed.]
* -11210 - Invalid column index XYZ.

Issue: SPR-11770
Move ResponseEntityBuilder into ResponseEntity

Moved the ResponseEntityBuilder into the ResponseEntity itself.

Issue: SPR-11752
Polish
Improve StringUtils.cleanPath

Issue: SPR-11793