SPARK-3883 SSL support for HttpServer and Akka

 - Introduced SSLOptions object
 - SSLOptions is created by SecurityManager
 - SSLOptions configures Akka and Jetty to use SSL
 - SSLOptions uses property file which is node-local to set SSL settings
 - Provided utility methods to determine the proper Akka protocol for Akka requests and to configure SSL socket factory for URL connections
 - Added tests cases for AkkaUtils, FileServer, SSLOptions and SecurityManager
Having the path to `ssl.conf` file in `SparkConf` is pointless, because the executor needs to use the SSL configuration prior to receiving the configuration. This is entirely host-based setting, not the application based setting.