Do not mark object as persisted after an association is saved

Callback order in Active Record objects are important. Users should not
define callbacks before the association definition or surprising
behaviours like the described at #3798 will happen. This callback order
dependency is documented at https://github.com/rails/rails/blob/31bfcdc77ca0d8cec9b5fe513bdc6f05814dd4f1/activerecord/lib/active_record/associations.rb#L1222-1227.

This reverts #15728.

Fixes #16620.