[SPARK-3495] Block replication fails continuously when the replication target node is dead AND [SPARK-3496] Block replication by mistake chooses driver as target

If a block manager (say, A) wants to replicate a block and the node chosen for replication (say, B) is dead, then the attempt to send the block to B fails. However, this continues to fail indefinitely. Even if the driver learns about the demise of the B, A continues to try replicating to B and failing miserably.

The reason behind this bug is that A initially fetches a list of peers from the driver (when B was active), but never updates it after B is dead. This affects Spark Streaming as its receiver uses block replication.

The solution in this patch adds the following.
- Changed BlockManagerMaster to return all the peers of a block manager, rather than the requested number. It also filters out driver BlockManager.
- Refactored BlockManager's replication code to handle peer caching correctly.
    + The peer for replication is randomly selected. This is different from past behavior where for a node A, a node B was deterministically chosen for the lifetime of the application.
    + If replication fails to one node, the peers are refetched.
    + The peer cached has a TTL of 1 second to enable discovery of new peers and using them for replication.
- Refactored use of \<driver\> in BlockManager into a new method `BlockManagerId.isDriver`
- Added replication unit tests (replication was not tested till now, duh!)

This should not make a difference in performance of Spark workloads where replication is not used.

@andrewor14 @JoshRosen 
The initial list wont ever have self as the BlockManagerMaster returns list of nodes excluding the id of the node requesting it (that is, self). Nonetheless getPeers can return empty list (e.g., local mode, with only one BlockManager). And can also happen in the bootstrapping time. However, current Spark already suffers from this problem. In fact its much worse. Currently, the peer list is only fetched once from master ( upon first time replication) is never updated every again! So this patch is a strict improvement, as the peer list updated, by default, every minute.