Allocate header table ringbuffer lazily

Previously in inflater we reserve new ringbuffer when table size is
changed.  This may be potentially a problem if new table size is very
large number.  When inflater is not used directly by application, this
is not a problem because application can choose the buffer size.  On
the other hand, if application uses inflater directly and it does not
have control of new buffer size (e.g., protocol dissector), then we
just fail to allocate large buffer in
nghttp2_hd_inflate_change_table_size() without actually use such huge
buffer.  This change defers the actual allocation of buffer when it is
actually needed so that we will fail when it is absolutely needed.