Super softtakeover

This introduces soft takeover for the super knob effect parameter connection. 
The super knob jumps to the current value of the linked parameter on effect load. 
https://bugs.launchpad.net/mixxx/+bug/1329063
https://bugs.launchpad.net/mixxx/+bug/1335355

It also includes some soft takeover refactoring 
Yes, that true. I have thought about to integrate it to any CO, but this would made this PR much bigger. 
So I decided to keep this design.