Enforce object safety

closes #17670

[breaking-change]

Traits must be object-safe if they are to be used in trait objects. This might require splitting a trait into object-safe and non-object-safe parts.

Some standard library traits in std::io have been split - Reader has new traits BytesReader (for the bytes method) and AsRefReader (for by_ref), Writer has new trait AsRefWriter (for by_ref). All these new traits have blanket impls, so any type which implements Reader or Writer (respectively) will have an implmentation of the new traits. To fix your code, you just need to `use` the new trait.
changes to libs
changes to tests
Change extensions traits to blanket impls
Changes for Windows terminal
auto merge of #17704 : nick29581/rust/object-safety, r=nikomatsakis

r? @nikomatsakis