[SPARK-3040] pick up a more proper local ip address for Utils.findLocalIpAddress method

Short version: NetworkInterface.getNetworkInterfaces returns ifs in reverse order compared to ifconfig output. It may pick up ip address associated with tun0 or virtual network interface.
See [SPARK_3040](https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/SPARK-3040) for more detail

Author: Ye Xianjin <advancedxy@gmail.com>

Closes #1946 from advancedxy/SPARK-3040 and squashes the following commits:

f33f6b2 [Ye Xianjin] add windows support
087a785 [Ye Xianjin] reverse the Networkinterface.getNetworkInterfaces output order to get a more proper local ip address.