Mer: Do not lose MerConnection state on project change

Do not reuse single MerConnection instance. Create one MerConnection
instance for each virtual machine to keep connection properties.

This has also the benefit of minimizing risks for "funny" errors with
reseting instance state when switching to another VM.

Signed-off-by: Martin Kampas <martin.kampas@jolla.com>
Mer: Handle VMs started outside of qtc more considerately

[qtc] Mer: Handle VMs started outside of qtc more considerately

Signed-off-by: Martin Kampas <martin.kampas@jolla.com>