Backpatch: Fix typo in update scripts for some contrib modules.

Backpatch as discussed in 20140702192641.GD22738@awork2.anarazel.de
ff. as the error messages are user facing and possibly confusing.

Original commit: 6f9e39bc9993c18686f0950f9b9657c7c97c7450
Fix typos in some error messages thrown by extension scripts when fed to psql.

Some of the many error messages introduced in 458857cc missed 'FROM
unpackaged'. Also e016b724 and 45ffeb7e forgot to quote extension
version numbers.

Backpatch to 9.1, just like 458857cc which introduced the messages. Do
so because the error messages thrown when the wrong command is copy &
pasted aren't easy to understand.