!str #15551 Switch to implicit passing of FlowMaterializer

* implicit param
* change tests to use implicit materializer
* add ActorFlow trait that provides an implicit materializer inside an actor
  in the right way, i.e. encourage usage of that instead of
  implicit def mat(implicit arf: ActorRef): FlowMaterializer
* make http compile, but those (@jrudolph, @sirthias) who know the api better will have to adjust
  to take full advantage of the implicit materializer

Refs #15551
This approach is safe after #15701