Mavenize Everything

All demos now mavenized and relative path corrected.
Added distribution replacing a good portion of waffle.proj msbuild.
Updated changelog and various other files to reflect project as it gets closer to release.
Formatted all POM's.
Added bat file to load third party jars not in central.  Just run it in windows to load tomcat 5 & spring security 4.
Waffle.proj updated to reflect maven build.
I'll merge, however I think this enables building targeting an older more common version of the framework.