A heuristic way to check if a memtable is full

Summary:
This is is based on https://reviews.facebook.net/D15027. It's not finished but I would like to give a prototype to avoid arena over-allocation while making better use of the already allocated memory blocks.

Instead of check approximate memtable size, we will take a deeper look at the arena, which incorporate essential idea that @sdong suggests: flush when arena has allocated its last and the last is "almost full"

Test Plan: N/A

Reviewers: haobo, sdong

Reviewed By: sdong

CC: leveldb, sdong

Differential Revision: https://reviews.facebook.net/D15051