Super softtakeover

This introduces soft takeover for the super knob effect parameter connection. 
The super knob jumps to the current value of the linked parameter on effect load. 
https://bugs.launchpad.net/mixxx/+bug/1329063
https://bugs.launchpad.net/mixxx/+bug/1335355

It also includes some soft takeover refactoring 
It bypasses the center hack. But this does not matter here because the threshold is bigger than the error anyway. 
Do you think it is worth to "fix" it?