Fix dependency issues with hamcrest

Motivation:

We use 3 (!) libraries to build mock objects - easymock, mockito, jmock.
Mockito and jMock pulls in the different versions of Hamcrest, and it
conflicts with the version pulled by jUnit.

Modifications:

- Replace mockito-all with mockito-core to avoid pulling in outdated
  jUnit and Hamcrest
- Exclude junit-dep when pulling in jmock-junit4, because it pulls an
  outdated Hamcrest version
- Pull in the hamcrest-library version used by jUnit explicitly

Result:

No more dependency hell that results in NoSuchMethodError during the
tests
Overall clean-up of the initial SniHandler/DomainNameMapping work

- Parameterize DomainNameMapping to make it useful for other use cases
  than just mapping to SslContext
- Move DomainNameMapping to io.netty.util
- Clean-up the API documentation
- Make SniHandler.hostname and sslContext volatile because they can be
  accessed by non-I/O threads
Fix checkstyle
Add missing @Override annotation