os/FileStore: force any new xattr into omap on E2BIG

If we have a huge xattr (or many little ones), the _fgetattrs() for the
inline_set will fail with E2BIG.  The conditions later where we decide
whether to clean up the old xattr will then also fail.  Will *will* put
the xattr in omap, but the non-omap version isn't cleaned up.

Fix this by setting a flag if we get E2BIG that the inline_set is known
to be incomplete.  In that case, take the conservative step of assuming
the xattr might be present and chain_fremovexattr().  Ignore any error
because it might not be there.

This is clearly harmless in the general case because it won't be there.  If
it is, we will hopefully remove enough xattrs that the E2BIG condition
will go away (usually by removing some really big chained xattr).

Signed-off-by: Sage Weil <sage@redhat.com>