Issue 39

There may still be some rough edges here. In particular, it feels like `CacheWriter.write(K, V)` needs to be split into insert and update, and return a value. Also, an attempt was made to whip compute/write functions for bulk CRUD methods into shape, to blaze the trail for fixing #110... not super convinced they are correct now though.
Sorry, I didn't mean to have that as name proposal... I don't like it neither. It could be `tryToRemoveMappingOrPanic()` or whatever, but basically having it named after the method body, not abstractly.