[SPARK-4714] BlockManager.dropFromMemory() should check whether block has been removed after synchronizing on BlockInfo instance.

After synchronizing on the `info` lock in the `removeBlock`/`dropOldBlocks`/`dropFromMemory` methods in BlockManager, the block that `info` represented may have already removed.

The three methods have the same logic to get the `info` lock:
```
   info = blockInfo.get(id)
   if (info != null) {
     info.synchronized {
       // do something
     }
   }
```

So, there is chance that when a thread enters the `info.synchronized` block, `info` has already been removed from the `blockInfo` map by some other thread who entered `info.synchronized` first.

The `removeBlock` and `dropOldBlocks` methods are idempotent, so it's safe for them to run on blocks that have already been removed.
But in `dropFromMemory` it may be problematic since it may drop block data which already removed into the diskstore, and this calls data store operations that are not designed to handle missing blocks.

This patch fixes this issue by adding a check to `dropFromMemory` to test whether blocks have been removed by a racing thread.

Author: hushan[胡珊] <hushan@xiaomi.com>

Closes #3574 from suyanNone/refine-block-concurrency and squashes the following commits:

edb989d [hushan[胡珊]] Refine code style and comments position
55fa4ba [hushan[胡珊]] refine code
e57e270 [hushan[胡珊]] add check info is already remove or not while having gotten info.syn

(cherry picked from commit 30dca924df0efbdc1b638fa7c705fe8743570783)
Signed-off-by: Josh Rosen <joshrosen@databricks.com>
[SPARK-4772] Clear local copies of accumulators as soon as we're done with them

Accumulators keep thread-local copies of themselves.  These copies were only cleared at the beginning of a task.  This meant that (a) the memory they used was tied up until the next task ran on that thread, and (b) if a thread died, the memory it had used for accumulators was locked up forever on that worker.

This PR clears the thread-local copies of accumulators at the end of each task, in the tasks finally block, to make sure they are cleaned up between tasks.  It also stores them in a ThreadLocal object, so that if, for some reason, the thread dies, any memory they are using at the time should be freed up.

Author: Nathan Kronenfeld <nkronenfeld@oculusinfo.com>

Closes #3570 from nkronenfeld/Accumulator-Improvements and squashes the following commits:

a581f3f [Nathan Kronenfeld] Change Accumulators to private[spark] instead of adding mima exclude to get around false positive in mima tests
b6c2180 [Nathan Kronenfeld] Include MiMa exclude as per build error instructions - this version incompatibility should be irrelevent, as it will only surface if a master is talking to a worker running a different version of spark.
537baad [Nathan Kronenfeld] Fuller refactoring as intended, incorporating JR's suggestions for ThreadLocal localAccums, and keeping clear(), but also calling it in tasks' finally block, rather than just at the beginning of the task.
39a82f2 [Nathan Kronenfeld] Clear local copies of accumulators as soon as we're done with them

(cherry picked from commit 94b377f94487109a1cc3e07dd230b1df7a96e28d)
Signed-off-by: Josh Rosen <joshrosen@databricks.com>

Conflicts:
	core/src/main/scala/org/apache/spark/Accumulators.scala
	core/src/main/scala/org/apache/spark/executor/Executor.scala