[CF] Add full_options_ to ColumnFamilyData

Summary:
Lots of code expects Options on construction/function call. My original idea was to split Options argument into ColumnFamilyOptions and DBOptions (the latter only if needed). However, this will require huge code changes very deep in the stack.

The better idea is to have ColumnFamilyData hold both ColumnFamilyOptions and Options. ColumnFamilyData::Options would be constructed from DBOptions (same for each column family) and ColumnFamilyOptions (different for each column family)

Now when we construct a class or call any method that requires Options, we can just push him ColumnFamilyData::Options and be sure that it's using column-family-specific settings.

Test Plan: make check

Reviewers: dhruba, haobo, kailiu, sdong

CC: leveldb

Differential Revision: https://reviews.facebook.net/D15927
[CF] Options -> DBOptions

Summary: Replaced most of occurrences of Options with more specific DBOptions. This brings us very close to supporting different configuration options for each column family.

Test Plan: make check

Reviewers: dhruba, haobo, kailiu, sdong

CC: leveldb

Differential Revision: https://reviews.facebook.net/D15933
Fixed a bug introduced by previous commit
[CF] Propagate correct options to WriteBatch::InsertInto

Summary:
WriteBatch can have multiple column families in one batch. Every column family has different options. So we have to add a way for write batch to get options for an arbitrary column family.

This required a bit more acrobatics since lots of interfaces had to be changed.

Test Plan: make check

Reviewers: dhruba, haobo, sdong, kailiu

CC: leveldb

Differential Revision: https://reviews.facebook.net/D15957
[CF] Thread-safety guarantees for ColumnFamilySet

Summary: Revised thread-safety guarantees and implemented a way to spinlock the object.

Test Plan: make check

Reviewers: dhruba, haobo, sdong, kailiu

CC: leveldb

Differential Revision: https://reviews.facebook.net/D15975